We are just looking at the sites and wondering how we go about getting
involved in the lifestyle? We have been looking forward to exploring
this for a while but we still can't seem to find the right couple that
we want to get involved with any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Surfing the sites is a great idea and you can get a lot of information
from them. I think we all started out with this question, I think
the first thing that you need to ask yourselves is, Are you putting too
many limits on couples that either of you might find attractive? (As in
one of you likes a couple and the other don't). Maybe cut back on looking
for the couple that is a mirror image of yourselves and look more toward
the fun and sexual exploration that you can share with a couple. Start
by talking to a couple that is secure in their relationship and looking
for the same sexual desires that you are. Build a friendship and understanding
then meet with them. We suggest casual first, that way there is no commitment
and the anxiety level is eliminated. See how things go and if all agree
then explore further with your desires.
We are thinking about this lifestyle we were just wondering,
Is the sexual activities usually out in the open for all to see, or behind
closed doors? We are voyeurs and really enjoy watching more then
Activities at the club between couples
for the most part take place behind closed doors. We do discourage activities
in the main social area due to couples that are new to the lifestyle wanting
to check out the club and see if the lifestyle is right for them. We encourage
all couples interested in the lifestyle to come and check us out. You never know you might find the right
couple with the same interests.
My wife and I have done a little soft
swing. We are not interested in full swap. We do like having sex while watching and
being watched. Are these clubs conducive to this appetite?
Yes, Some of the clubs in the area
do have couples that are only interested in soft swing. You can E-Mail the clubs and ask directly
as to what their club standard's are for couples attending . When you meet
couples at the clubs you need to let them know what your sexual preferences
What is a good club for a couple that
is new with some F-Bi interest?
In Our opinion all the clubs in the area
are good, Our suggestion is PrivateAffairsnisc due
in part to it being geared for new couples whether to the lifestyle or
to the clubs. PrivateAffairsnisc is a no pressure
atmosphere with really friendly hosts that will answer any questions you
might have and really make you feel at home.